We keep on searching for that one reason and that biggest motivation to continue something. You can deny it till the greatest extent, but you will agree with me that things are easily accomplished when they have an underlying reason and driving force. For all of us, these forces are different. But they are driven by that one simple thing.
But you know what? Your mental well being is more important than all the questions above. You want to please someone by compromising your state of mind. How can one unhappy person make other happy? I used to be the same person earlier. I used to say yes to everything and every one thinking that it will make others feel good. But slowly and gradually, I found myself being pulled into different directions. It started affecting me negatively. That is when I decided to stop. I too, don't like to sound mean. But then, a point comes in your life where you have to set boundaries and start to say no.
We all know we have a lot of time right now. We don't know for how long. But when we have it, why not take a few baby steps to reorganize life during the quarantine period? It is an ideal time to do so. Reorganizing life is a big process depending on where you stand right now. But we can surely start with a few initiatives to get going.
Self love has become a really talked about thing in recent times. It wasn't so popular in the olden days. Initially, we guys wanted, or rather were taught to behave in a certain way. To act in a manner that pleases the society and not us. We had really less freedom of articulating our thoughts or expressing our feelings out. But now, things have changed. We have changed. The society is changing. And in such hectic and busy days, the only thing we forget is to indulge in some self love. That is because we have always given priority to everything but us.
Coronavirus has become the most talked about subject in recent months. And thanks to it, we all are social distancing like never before. Most of us wake up every morning with no particular agenda or motivation for the day. There's no fixed time to get out of the bed and no worries to get ready to go to the office. We just move in the house, from bedroom to kitchen and from the kitchen to the hall. That is it.